How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 16.06.2025 07:19
That's it for today.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
What do you remember that 95% of us have forgotten?
Ask yourself:
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
What is the most offensive thing someone has ever asked you?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Hangs out with loser friends.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Why is the government destroying the homeless instead of helping them?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
What I need from you?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
How do you view men and women who cheat?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Does not procrastinate.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
What pet would you strongly not recommend?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Procrastinates a lot.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Making more friends is a goal.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Why do I sweat so much at the gym?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Do not set goals—set systems.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
What makes females believe or think abortions are part of a woman’s rights?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).